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Sisterhood Challenges

By Capt SistaGurl

Women are perfectly imperfect. Our splendors stretch beyond sight and if banded together, we could undoubtedly change the world. In order for this to occur, we need to unify. Before that can happen, it’s important to lay out some of the reasons why we struggle. Since our issues cannot be spelled out in one post. I will dedicate time to create a series. I believe that the core contention of female division is based on the following five components:

Girls vs. girls: The sandbox beef
Mother vs. Daughter
Workplace Competition
Color-ism Issues
The Boy is Mine

A couple of general themes will most likely arise during the series.
Do we ever stop to think or question if we have to be each other's adversary?
I am not doing this series to blow smoke or pander.
I chose it because I believe in the power of sisterhood, and have struggled and continue to
struggle with my relationships with women just like everyone else.
Not everyday is a great day for the sisterhood, but self reflection and healing is key to ensure,
that even when we think things that aren't "sister-like" about another woman,
we understand where it came from.

So.. like any healing process.. let's start from the beginning.

Stay tuned for part one!

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