By: Rapmusiq I must begin this article with the clear disclaimer that I am a deep lover of 90’s R&B, Neo-Soul and any other music that falls remotely into these categories. This music provided the soundtrack to my adolescence and helped shape the level of expectation that I had for future relationships. I know this music backward and forward and you would be hard pressed to find an R&B hit from this era that I would be unfamiliar with; let alone not know every single lyric and plot of the music video. I remember seeing the music video for “Someone to Love you” by Ruff Endz where the female protagonist, a new college student meets a gorgeous male student in the library and falls in love. I watched that video for the first time as a junior high school student and I was convinced that this was how I would meet my husband. Needless to say, this was not the case. Not that I did no...