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Surviving Distractions: How to identify them and how to stop them

By Felicia Clark 
I sit down to do a write-up with my deadline for completion in two days. After showering, I change into my pajama bottoms and an oversized shirt. I grab a glass of wine, chips, and my laptop. My blanket and pillow are on the sofa. My rain sounds are going. I decided that everything's in place. I plop onto my sofa and proceed to write. All of sudden, PANDEMONIUM. “Ma! Can you please bring me a towel?! I forgot to grab one!” One of my sons yelled from the bathroom.
After grabbing a towel and handing it to an awaiting hand sticking out the slit of the bathroom door, I sat back down upon the sofa and proceeded to write. 
Ring! Ring! Unh unh, not answering. The phone stops ringing. Ring! Ring! Same number. Not answering. Then it rings AGAIN! Same number, belonging to my bestie. She’s called 3 times in a row. She never does that. Something must be wrong. I decided to call her back and try to make it short; no more than 10 minutes, tops

Thirty minutes later, she’s just get…

GUEST BLOG POST: Revenge of the Blerds

MTR Podcast Attends BlerdconMy Name is Rob and I’m black.

I’m a nerd.

I’m a blerd.

Now that I’ve declared my tribe let me explain. I’ve always had an interested in pop culture paraphernalia over sports. I’ve been more easily attached to watching cartoons and reading comics overthrowing a football or dunking a basketball. And, for the longest time, I’ve been hit with this idea that “black kids don’t do that” – the crux of the Unofficially Black Podcast.
As I’ve gotten older I’ve suppressed my joy in geeky, nerd things to be cool. Being the cool guy mattered more to me than just enjoying what I liked. So those earlier declarations we’re a source of pride or even acknowledgment – it was a thing about me. Not until becoming an adult and recovering from corporate conditioning acting in a persona did I realize that I should just be myself and I’d have deeper, more fulfilling relationships. We all crave acceptance and be a part of something. To find our tribe.

Good Tribes

Tribes are those groups we fit into – groups that accept us as we are. Podcasting is a community, a tribe I want to help enrich and cultivate in Baltimore. Black podcasters to refine that idea. That would be my prime tribe. Nerds – specifically blerds are my second tribe.
During the second weekend this July I attended Blerdcon in Arlington Va. Blerdcon is an annual three-day multi-genre convention held during July in Arlington, Virginia. The conventions name comes from the word “blerds”, a term for black nerds, and was founded by Hilton George. Blerdcon aims to be diverse and inclusive. That last part of the Blerdcon description is always a hassle for me to wrap my head around. Oftentimes, organizations use the concept of inclusivity to fit their idea of it. Inclusivity with parameters. Inclusivity that comes with tiers – i.e. my fandom is better than yours and the like. Not at Blerdcon.
Blerdcon was my best convention experience. Previously I wrote about how great Awesomecon is. That experience was wonderful. Blerdcon is something different and I can put my finger on it. It’s the beautiful black nerds. I felt at home with fellow blerds. Blerdcon was as nerdy and it was black. It is so appealing to me – Hilton, the organizers, and the cosplayers made the convention one of a kind.

The rundown

Friday Night

On Friday, DeAyres from the Mighty CoPlay Media and I attended on Friday night and Saturday. Usually, Saturday is the biggest day for the weekend conventions, so our thinking was to get our passes and do a cursory check but mostly preparing for interviews on Saturday. We saw so many cosplays we’ve seen at Baltimore ComicCon and Awesomecon. The convention really felt like a family reunion. So much that I was offered ‘Elevator Henny’ a convention goer had a bottle of Hennessey that he was sharing with other convention-goers. Oh, what a time to be alive.
Friday night we met the incomparable Beau Billingslea from Cowboy Bebop fame.

We attended a Blerdlesque – Blerd Burlesque show. Blerdlesque is a concept where the nerdy or blerd adjacent meets sexy. It was one of the most inclusive parts of the night that I attended. DeAyres ran into his buddies from the DC Anime Club.  Again, it was like running a cousin or an old friend.
Everyone was at this convention – pretty much any swatch from the swath of personas was in attendance at Blerdcon. Also, that cool element was there. The element that I believe for so long wasn’t part of blerd culture but a part of black culture. There was a convergence of the cool, sexy and geeky. I found the lost tribe.


Saturday at Blerdcon was bonkers. The plan for Saturday was to get interviews, met up with our back up – my girlfriend, Ku, came down as well as D-MO from CoPlay Media to help DeAyres and I get coverage. In essence, work blended with fun. That’s always the best recipe.
My girlfriend purchased a few comics and was compelled to buy the next two installments of great, Tuskegee Heirs. The creators are great guys and it was a special moment for me. I felt like I introduced her to the creators of something she likes. Ku really likes the first issue of Tuskegee Heirs. Her quote “I can’t come to a convention like this and not support black artists. It’s irresponsible” resonated with me. It’s so important to support our people.
We took pictures of cosplayers, conversed with convention-goers as well as got haircuts. Blerdcon had barbers! That’s one of the blackest things I can think of. The haircuts were dope. Lorenzo, the barber, is a good dude.
Rob & Lorenzo at Blerdcon
After that haircuts, we attended an amazing Q&A with Beau Billingslea. Later, DeAyres and I linked up with our backup and watched the likes of a group Sailor Moon Cosplay, Clovers from Bring it On and the ubiquitous black line dancing. It was great!  Finally, we checked out the Anime Theater – it was great to hang out and watch some new anime – getting away from the mass of people at the convention. Fire Force was dope.

Other highlights for Blerdcon

  1. Food trucks – there were at least 8 food trucks at the convention for the entire weekend. I bought some refreshing snow cones from one of the trucks.
  2. The Absence of the common Nickle & Dime – the convention had free-standing arcade games that didn’t require quarters – they were unlocked! Additionally, there were water stations everywhere
  3. Safety – conventions can be dicey and feel unsafe for women and children but there was a sense, from my observation, none of that common, vile nonsense was happening. I had the impression of respecting each other and protecting each other was in full effect. This is important
  4. The DJs were top-notch – let’s be honest you can’t have a ‘black event’ without great music

Final Thoughts

In conclusion, I’ll go again in the future. I want to support Blerdcon in whichever way I can. Whether it’s attended as press, writing a blog or just going with a group of people. It’s crucial to support events that are for us. Blerdcon felt like an HBCU homecoming with nerds. There’s something very special with creative, weird and alternative black get together.
About Rob! 
My name is Rob Lee, creator of MTR Podcasts. It’s a Baltimore based podcast network where we specialize in raw, unfiltered observations on pop culture, entertainment, and trending topics. Follow Rob at, on IG @lordleemtr, and @mtrpodcasts on IG and Facebook. 


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